What if your 80:20 rule became a 60:40 rule for Christmas? šāØ
- sandymilner
- Dec 5, 2025
- 2 min read
The holiday season brings joy ā and also fuller calendars, extra social events, travel, indulgent food and a whole lot of āout of routine.ā And thatās exactly why your health habits might need aĀ seasonal shiftĀ too.Ā
So many of us slip into anĀ all-or-nothing mindsetĀ with health and fitness. But that mentality does the opposite of what we want ā it sets us up to fail. Then comes the cycle: we slip, we judge ourselves, we feel low, we slip again⦠and our self-efficacy tanks. š
But hereās the truth:Ā we donāt need 100% in life to succeedĀ ā not even close. Doctors become licensed with aroundĀ 60ā70%. UK lawyers pass the Bar with aboutĀ 60%. Australian accountants earn their CPA with roughlyĀ 65%.
So let's bin perfection, "all-or-nothing" and even the 80:20 rule this December ā and why not try:

The 60:40 Christmas Rule š§š
For a few weeks, aim to make supportive, nourishing choicesĀ 60% of the timeĀ ā and allow the other 40% to be flexible, social, joyful and imperfect. This approach still protects your wellbeingĀ withoutĀ robbing you of the experiences that promote connection and make the holidays special. Hereās why it works:
šĀ You stay consistent enoughĀ - 60% is still more than half the time ā and miles better than giving up altogether.
š°Ā You avoid the festive guiltĀ - Enjoy the Christmas feastingĀ minusĀ the mental punishment.
š§ Ā You reduce stressĀ - Takes the pressure off during the busiest month of the year.
šŖĀ You bounce back faster in JanuaryĀ - Flexibility keeps habits intact, so you donāt have to āstart from zeroā later.
šĀ You get to be fully presentĀ - Family, food, fun ā it's an important time to prioritise connection ā which releases of oxytocin and nourishes your nervous system.
The goal isnāt perfection. Itās staying grounded, energised and kind to yourself while life gets festive and fun.Ā Shift the ratio, keep the habits, enjoy the season.. and stay fizzy š„




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